So, my MIL is smiling at me. she smiled at me twice when i had to talk to her something. 1. when i woke up in the morning and said i had to go early today(Friday) 2. When came from office yesterday n asked her if anything needs to be brought. hmmm... two things are possible - 1. She is in a good mood. because FIL is here for a week now, and she have someone to talk to whole day and every nonsense that runs in her mind would have been spilled out by now. and i know how nice it feels when u spill out everything thing after keeping it in your heart for sometimes. hello! we are ladies, we need to spill out n load our partner with trouble, and we feel happy n light in a strange way. So this could be one possibility. other wise 2. FIL would be angry with me, and would have scolded behind my back or planned something with MIL like moving out (thats all they can do) or that he would talk to me (i know when ppl, third person, when he sees our our house, i seems to be on blame because i dont take any household responsibility). so again strange, we ladies feel little bit pity, mixed with the thing trying to look friendly or trying to look like an innocent one.
i know we are complicated creatures, no man can master this technique. but i dont pity u guys, u think straight which helps solving the problem quicker (if any problem does exist). we worry for nothing and if real problem exist, either we dont worry or we complicate even more) but any how we dont solve it.
so coming back, my point is, right now the heat in this house has reduced. although im trained not to believe anything like this, so the urge to move out of this house has come down drastically. mainly because as the time is getting closer and amount of risk it involves, im shit scared. and also with MIL all smiling and reducing the heat in the house.
And one thing out of this context, when i hear MIL talk to anybody (FIL, BIL, my husband) my heart sinks with fear sitting in my room. i feel like she is complaining about be. And that too she have such a bad accent, all dragging and negative. it hard to understand her what she is talking. bitch!
so coming back to the point, yesterday i was trying hard to think clear. i wrote down all the options that i can think of in a paper and showed to bob. yes i met him yesterday, that is a separate story, i will tell you later. But with the heat reducing and the other factors like project is not going live for another couple of days, and my friend is not in the town where i was planning to stay with her. And most important thing, im super confused. i should put this plan off for few days. let me start all over again if i feel like i should take a break. yes, this decision is causing some friction with my ego, because i was so desperate to quit n run away n now im telling my self to compromise because that days are not that bad. even my husband is trying to improve situation, imrove the relation between us. he is trying to be sweet with me. MIL smiling, husband sweet, Hello, cant u guys hold on for few more days n wait for me to run away? why u guys do this and turn the situation better now n confuse me in the last moment?
Now other stories, before bob story i will about my husband - yesterday he asked me about my medicine if its over n i said yes. medicine is one reason that i can travel to my home town. although i have stopped taking medicine, i said simply. next her asked me about my visa n discussed various rules about it. ok so planning to outside? other day he spoke to about me quitting and joining product company. that he have one contact n he discussed with her about me. (good). and other day when it was late in the night n i was super tired and had to wash utensils he offered to help me. MIL was asleep then. (thats y, this rat spoke to me) anyhow i think it is still sweet for a person like him.
now bob. Hmmm.. so yesterday was kind like a date. he came in the afternoon we had lunch a fancy Chinese restaurant. then sat in coffee day discussing various thing, one of them is my plan. but it is not finalized because im confused yet. and apart from that he spoke how he had a feeling for me right from first year, and how he felt when i came to meet these guys (twice) before marriage, n when i was telling them my sad stories. and finally when i was getting married. he spoke, like he is getting these from his heart out. hope is he feeling better now. he was supposed to meet his another friend after our meet. that friend is close to him and he shared all his feelings with him. he would have met him by now and said everything about me to him. i too poured down some of my stuff to him about my deep crush. how i was hurt and what let to what.
i feel like im blessed to have an admirer like him. he just wants me to be happy nothing more.
i know we are complicated creatures, no man can master this technique. but i dont pity u guys, u think straight which helps solving the problem quicker (if any problem does exist). we worry for nothing and if real problem exist, either we dont worry or we complicate even more) but any how we dont solve it.
so coming back, my point is, right now the heat in this house has reduced. although im trained not to believe anything like this, so the urge to move out of this house has come down drastically. mainly because as the time is getting closer and amount of risk it involves, im shit scared. and also with MIL all smiling and reducing the heat in the house.
And one thing out of this context, when i hear MIL talk to anybody (FIL, BIL, my husband) my heart sinks with fear sitting in my room. i feel like she is complaining about be. And that too she have such a bad accent, all dragging and negative. it hard to understand her what she is talking. bitch!
so coming back to the point, yesterday i was trying hard to think clear. i wrote down all the options that i can think of in a paper and showed to bob. yes i met him yesterday, that is a separate story, i will tell you later. But with the heat reducing and the other factors like project is not going live for another couple of days, and my friend is not in the town where i was planning to stay with her. And most important thing, im super confused. i should put this plan off for few days. let me start all over again if i feel like i should take a break. yes, this decision is causing some friction with my ego, because i was so desperate to quit n run away n now im telling my self to compromise because that days are not that bad. even my husband is trying to improve situation, imrove the relation between us. he is trying to be sweet with me. MIL smiling, husband sweet, Hello, cant u guys hold on for few more days n wait for me to run away? why u guys do this and turn the situation better now n confuse me in the last moment?
Now other stories, before bob story i will about my husband - yesterday he asked me about my medicine if its over n i said yes. medicine is one reason that i can travel to my home town. although i have stopped taking medicine, i said simply. next her asked me about my visa n discussed various rules about it. ok so planning to outside? other day he spoke to about me quitting and joining product company. that he have one contact n he discussed with her about me. (good). and other day when it was late in the night n i was super tired and had to wash utensils he offered to help me. MIL was asleep then. (thats y, this rat spoke to me) anyhow i think it is still sweet for a person like him.
now bob. Hmmm.. so yesterday was kind like a date. he came in the afternoon we had lunch a fancy Chinese restaurant. then sat in coffee day discussing various thing, one of them is my plan. but it is not finalized because im confused yet. and apart from that he spoke how he had a feeling for me right from first year, and how he felt when i came to meet these guys (twice) before marriage, n when i was telling them my sad stories. and finally when i was getting married. he spoke, like he is getting these from his heart out. hope is he feeling better now. he was supposed to meet his another friend after our meet. that friend is close to him and he shared all his feelings with him. he would have met him by now and said everything about me to him. i too poured down some of my stuff to him about my deep crush. how i was hurt and what let to what.
i feel like im blessed to have an admirer like him. he just wants me to be happy nothing more.
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