Yes there are problems, may be bigger problems than i can actually put them in words so it doesnt look justified to be sad over such small problem per se. But at the end, i am the looser. I am the one constantly being sad, and my face is being drooped off. What to do? how to fix it, how to change my state of mind like a click of my finger. right click and change the background. Right now it is a gloomy background and all the work that i try to do is very inefficient, how to fix it. Change the back ground and everything with change for good. Have to turn my mind to be positive, how to do it. Common girl, snap out of it.
ok, quick mood lift : 5 things i like about my husband:
1. He came to Australia and i am not stuck in the house with my mother in law. A big plus point that i should always be grateful for.
2. He is not evil, i have know many evil person and their wicked minds. I am glad he is not a wicked person. Good person, with a good heart.
3. Even though he is lazy and incapable, it is for my advantage. I know lot of men who are macho and know it all, and the amount of insult they do on women in every chance they get. Oh horrible, i am glad he don't get any chance to insult me, because i am comparatively smarter than him. Also active than him. So there is no chance for him to put me down. That is a bog plus.
4. He is not lazy for career, he had struggle to learn new things initially, but now learning became his habit. He continuously learns. Which is good because then he is not stuck in his career and hence getting upset and spoiling our relationship, a downward spiral.
5. He likes tanusha, and is a good dad, than saying I will not take care of her, it is your responsibility.
Slowly girl, the change you want to bring in will come very very slowly, don't snap out. Is not the situation now is much better than the situation few years back, definitely! then these situation will also change, just give some time to breath. He will change, don't push too hard to break him. God, you will be making a horrible mother in law!
Not just that, you should give him a chance to fee good about himself too, to improve. If you keep criticising him then what is his motivation to improve? Nurture him and he will grow into a pretty flower.
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