New Plan

So, I’m thinking about new strategy to deal with MIL

Last week, my strategy didn’t work…

It was think her as dying women, and ur mission is to get all the recipe from her before she is dead. So like no matter how she behave, just don’t give a shit and only one thing in ur mind.. learn all the recipe. And the going was getting tougher, I imagined she will be dead next week or even tomorrow. And just hold on.

But then when it became too much, my mind voice said, anyway she is dying, let her die… I will learn the recipe elsewhere, I don’t have to put up with these insults so much. I have some ego, and man this hurts so much.

And that’s why last week the scene last week. I was so angry…

 

And this week no strategy, and it was no good.

 

So, today in bus I had thought of new strategy, it is with the help of my blog…

I will record every day. Plan is for one week. For this one week, that’s is till next Monday by this time…

I will be a fresh girl. And do all the things that any person would normally do, and record my MIL reaction to it.

Ok, my action – her reaction. This is going to go in my blog for the next one whole week, and then I will plan my next strategy next Monday.

See only two things can happen –

1.       It will work

2.       It will not work

If it works, i.e my relation is becomes good and she starts to behave properly with me. Then good.

And if it didn’t work, i.e. she remains to be a pig to me, then at least I will have record of this madness. And u know, can even kill her for it. I would be justified for it.

But the key thing to this mission is, I have to be a fresh girl for like every five mins, every time I get pissed off.

Because I want me to behave normally, only then her abnormal behavior would come out and only then it could be recorded. For ex. She is coughing big time  and I offer her warm water – the worst things that she can do is, throw it and spit on my face. Then I will record it. And next time she cough any sane person will not bother to even get up. But for my mission I have to think new, like im new this place and hence would give warm water again. – if she spits again – I will record it. Not a big deal, I can hold on one week, cant i. after all this is part of a big plan.

Think like im come CID or something. Like some secret mission, some terrorist.. any crap, whose identity is not disclosed. I know I need lot of patients, I might even feel bad for myself, sorry for myself. But then just know it will be all over in 7 days. Just 7 days.

All the best in ur mission gal…