WOW!!! What a day it was, i didnt see this coming today. When i got up in the morning it was like any other boring day.
1. Morning My husband spoke well to me after a long time, and i spoke to him also.
2. My MIL didnt stare back at me when i said good bye while leaving. I knew something is fishy today at this point itself.
3. My project manager called me to say that i will be moved to another development project by May starting.
4. I had a lovely lovely chat with the tech arch. it was so nice i must say. simply superb. it was like putting cool ointment over the wound.
5. I had a great chat with the philosopher friend. it opened up all the narrow mind.
6. I came late today, and my husband called and said to call my MIL and inform her. :S well, i was shit scared about it and i said to myself so, this is how a happy day can end. but when i called her, her voice was not harsh, she just said ok in a nice way and hung up. I'm actually pinching myself to check it what im writing down is true, and im not dreaming.
i noted down the chat i had with the tech arch. for record sake i will copy it here -
12:52 PM ME:
Hey..
what r u doing still?
12:52 PM TECH ARCH
hi
12:52 PM ME:
go to sleep...
12:52 PM TECH ARCH
how are you
working ofcourse
12:52 PM ME:
browsing wikipedia?
12:52 PM TECH ARCH
sure
no
working hard
12:53 PM ME:
acho cho...
12:53 PM TECH ARCH
i am incharge of a big multi channel implementation
so, no time to sleep
12:53 PM ME:
multi channel implemetation..
12:53 PM TECH ARCH
yeah, we are doing a hybris implementaiton for a childrens clothing client
12:53 PM ME:
indhe peru solarthuke yenaku oru naal agum...
12:54 PM TECH ARCH
all kinds of cross channel, ecommerce, oms, wms etc etc
12:54 PM ME:
ok , u carry on. i dont want to disturb u..
hope things will go smooth..
12:54 PM TECH ARCH
if we had done this for limited, we would have done this for 4 years and charged them 50 million dollars
sure, thanx
no disturbance, i like talking to you
inbetween relaxation
how is ur spring studies coming along
12:58 PM ME:
good..
as n when i reading, i learn how much more i have to read..
its like never ending thing..
1:02 PM TECH ARCH
yes
just pick what you need and go with you
how are your parents
and husband
1:04 PM ME:
all r good here..
1:04 PM TECH ARCH
how is ur brother doing
1:05 PM ME:
ya in final year now..
1:05 PM TECH ARCH
what is his newest fad
1:05 PM ME:
fad?
1:05 PM TECH ARCH
latest fashion
1:05 PM ME:
ha ha.. u have seen him?
1:08 PM TECH ARCH
yes, i saw him in your marriage
unga veetu hero
1:08 PM ME:
he have apple ipad now..
my father got him..
he is playing games in it all the time..
i told him to delete games from it, as final semesters are approching..
it is a big time waste
1:08 PM TECH ARCH
cool
lucky guy
1:09 PM ME:
i know..
he have all possible gadgets..
1:09 PM TECH ARCH
he looks just like your male version though
1:09 PM ME:
ha ha ha.. ya, we have a lot in common..
1:09 PM TECH ARCH
like what
other than looks and smartness
1:10 PM ME:
thank you thank you..
1:10 PM TECH ARCH
is he also funny like you
1:10 PM ME:
he is a lot cooler than me
once i lost my bag in local train
1:11 PM TECH ARCH
hard to imagine, but he does look cool
1:11 PM ME:
it had some clothes in it..
and i was upset..
he told me, just think like u donated it to some needy ppl
it will reach some needy ppl anyway..
he speaks less in terms of phylosophy..
but he makes lots of sense, in just few words..
sometimes i feel ashmaed of having such a narrow mind..
1:13 PM TECH ARCH
oh
yeah, may be you should feel good for losing your bag
but, feeling bad does not help either
but, all we are, are a mixed bag of feelings
1:14 PM ME:
ha ha.. yes..
im little low in emotions..
1:14 PM TECH ARCH
why do you say that
1:14 PM ME:
i dont have much feeling as such..
1:15 PM TECH ARCH
interesting
1:15 PM ME:
i dont know, im like that..
once i read a book on emotions
1:15 PM TECH ARCH
every one have strong feelings on some situations
not every one feels the same way
like i dont cry watching sad movies
does not mean i am not emotional
1:16 PM ME:
me too... not much..
1:16 PM TECH ARCH
esp, with nostalgic situations, people close to you etc, you are bound to get emotional
1:16 PM ME:
yes yes, but i dont admit it..
1:16 PM TECH ARCH
its ok
but, admit it to atleast a small set of people
dont have to admit to everyone
1:17 PM ME:
ok, i will tell u about the book..
1:17 PM TECH ARCH
that is why you have friends
sure,
1:17 PM ME:
its called roller coster of emotions..
1:17 PM TECH ARCH
which book is it
1:17 PM ME:
it explains biologically why each feeling exists
1:18 PM TECH ARCH
cool
why does it exist
1:18 PM ME:
like happyness, sadness, jelousy, etc
there were 9 emotions... explained in details
1:19 PM TECH ARCH
ok
1:19 PM ME:
they did lot of experements. and the results were shared in that book..
like happiness...
1:19 PM TECH ARCH
ok
what is the crux of this book
1:19 PM ME:
when u r happy u smile..
at the same time, when u smile.. u will feel happy
1:20 PM TECH ARCH
apparently all this is driven by harmones and driven by a biological need to survive and reproduce
1:20 PM ME:
its vis a versa
excatly..
1:20 PM TECH ARCH
i knew, everything eventually gets tied back to this
it is trivializing but with good sense
1:21 PM ME:
interesting was disgust feeling..
it is there so that we can avoid poisonous food from eating..
1:22 PM TECH ARCH
wow
you know so much, it is sometimes astonishing
1:22 PM ME:
i used to read some wierd books..
gives me a nice point of view on ordinary things
1:23 PM TECH ARCH
makes sense
1:23 PM ME:
like once i said, freakonomics..
u said u watched the movie of it..
1:24 PM TECH ARCH
i saw the move, yes
it was interesting
some of the points they mentioned was very true also
i must read this book on emotions though
1:25 PM ME:
nice..
u can download from torrent i guess.
1:25 PM TECH ARCH
coz, i also sometimes feel, i have low emotions, may be this will help me understand wht it is
1:25 PM ME:
http://books.google.co.in/books?id=fTio56YfIkUC&dq=roller+coaster+of+emotions&hl=en&sa=X&ei=G4qGT8ODK4zjrAeCqsWtBg&ved=0CDYQ6AEwAA
1:25 PM TECH ARCH
sure
did you buy the book
1:26 PM ME:
ha ha.. welcome to my boat..
i did, but i think ilost it.. didnt see it from a long time..
must have lend it to someone..
1:26 PM TECH ARCH
ok
what did you learn from it
do you think you have become too rational to be emotional
like sheldon cooper from big bang theory
1:27 PM ME:
i learnt that,its ok not to be emotional in this age..
as most of the things are not valid for a human..
1:28 PM TECH ARCH
ok
what are not valid for a human
1:28 PM ME:
im not able to recollect stuff from the book..
like disgust is not valid now
1:29 PM TECH ARCH
ok
1:29 PM ME:
we wont eat any insect anyway..
we know which is food and which is not..
on the similar line.. there is concept called engrams
1:30 PM TECH ARCH
oh
1:30 PM ME:
which helps keep animals from danger..
1:30 PM TECH ARCH
bad smelly thing right
1:30 PM ME:
and it is a big set back for human from success..
1:31 PM TECH ARCH
oh
1:31 PM ME:
no it some mental .... picture..
1:31 PM TECH ARCH
ok
1:31 PM ME:
in our subconsiousness.
i read it one of the 'how to be success ful book'
1:31 PM TECH ARCH
cool
how did you get so much interest in reading
1:32 PM ME:
may be from my father... but u shouldnt be impressed by this.,,
i should be learning from u..
1:33 PM TECH ARCH
what am i doing except work
i wish i could be like you
always happy
1:33 PM ME:
no no u memorized the whole wikipedia..
1:33 PM TECH ARCH
not really
1:33 PM ME:
u r too good in history n stuff..
1:34 PM TECH ARCH
it is a life time of interest gathered over a period of time
1:34 PM ME:
remember u once spoke about quaker oats
1:34 PM TECH ARCH
i have general interest in history
what did i speak
1:35 PM ME:
ha ha, reverse KT?
that day i got my new voice recorder..
1:35 PM TECH ARCH
its ok, i actually forgot
1:35 PM ME:
and it was recorded in it..
1:35 PM TECH ARCH
cool
was that not about spices or something
1:35 PM ME:
that it was from a group of ppl - from germany i guess..
they wear tall hats..
1:36 PM TECH ARCH
yes correct
that was about corn flakes not oats
1:36 PM ME:
topic started on honey bunch
1:36 PM TECH ARCH
quakers were a minority religious group that came up with corn flakes
correct
exactly
now, i remember
1:37 PM ME:
:)
1:37 PM TECH ARCH
too much, how did you even remember
1:37 PM ME:
i heard it recently when i was getting board..
1:37 PM TECH ARCH
and you know what, i talk such things only with very few people and one of them is you
1:38 PM ME:
that talk was interesting..
1:38 PM TECH ARCH
:)
1:38 PM ME:
wish u had talk something techincal also, i would have learnt something
1:38 PM TECH ARCH
ennamo ponga
may be sometime
1:39 PM ME:
it must be getting very late for u..
its 1.39 here
whats time there?
1:39 PM TECH ARCH
yeah, need to crash
1 09
pacific time zone
1:40 PM ME:
cool...
not much... than i expected..
ok... bye bye..
1:40 PM TECH ARCH
anyway, catch you later
1:40 PM ME:
very nice talking to u..
1:40 PM TECH ARCH
thanks for the chat
bye
1. Morning My husband spoke well to me after a long time, and i spoke to him also.
2. My MIL didnt stare back at me when i said good bye while leaving. I knew something is fishy today at this point itself.
3. My project manager called me to say that i will be moved to another development project by May starting.
4. I had a lovely lovely chat with the tech arch. it was so nice i must say. simply superb. it was like putting cool ointment over the wound.
5. I had a great chat with the philosopher friend. it opened up all the narrow mind.
6. I came late today, and my husband called and said to call my MIL and inform her. :S well, i was shit scared about it and i said to myself so, this is how a happy day can end. but when i called her, her voice was not harsh, she just said ok in a nice way and hung up. I'm actually pinching myself to check it what im writing down is true, and im not dreaming.
i noted down the chat i had with the tech arch. for record sake i will copy it here -
12:52 PM ME:
Hey..
what r u doing still?
12:52 PM TECH ARCH
hi
12:52 PM ME:
go to sleep...
12:52 PM TECH ARCH
how are you
working ofcourse
12:52 PM ME:
browsing wikipedia?
12:52 PM TECH ARCH
sure
no
working hard
12:53 PM ME:
acho cho...
12:53 PM TECH ARCH
i am incharge of a big multi channel implementation
so, no time to sleep
12:53 PM ME:
multi channel implemetation..
12:53 PM TECH ARCH
yeah, we are doing a hybris implementaiton for a childrens clothing client
12:53 PM ME:
indhe peru solarthuke yenaku oru naal agum...
12:54 PM TECH ARCH
all kinds of cross channel, ecommerce, oms, wms etc etc
12:54 PM ME:
ok , u carry on. i dont want to disturb u..
hope things will go smooth..
12:54 PM TECH ARCH
if we had done this for limited, we would have done this for 4 years and charged them 50 million dollars
sure, thanx
no disturbance, i like talking to you
inbetween relaxation
how is ur spring studies coming along
12:58 PM ME:
good..
as n when i reading, i learn how much more i have to read..
its like never ending thing..
1:02 PM TECH ARCH
yes
just pick what you need and go with you
how are your parents
and husband
1:04 PM ME:
all r good here..
1:04 PM TECH ARCH
how is ur brother doing
1:05 PM ME:
ya in final year now..
1:05 PM TECH ARCH
what is his newest fad
1:05 PM ME:
fad?
1:05 PM TECH ARCH
latest fashion
1:05 PM ME:
ha ha.. u have seen him?
1:08 PM TECH ARCH
yes, i saw him in your marriage
unga veetu hero
1:08 PM ME:
he have apple ipad now..
my father got him..
he is playing games in it all the time..
i told him to delete games from it, as final semesters are approching..
it is a big time waste
1:08 PM TECH ARCH
cool
lucky guy
1:09 PM ME:
i know..
he have all possible gadgets..
1:09 PM TECH ARCH
he looks just like your male version though
1:09 PM ME:
ha ha ha.. ya, we have a lot in common..
1:09 PM TECH ARCH
like what
other than looks and smartness
1:10 PM ME:
thank you thank you..
1:10 PM TECH ARCH
is he also funny like you
1:10 PM ME:
he is a lot cooler than me
once i lost my bag in local train
1:11 PM TECH ARCH
hard to imagine, but he does look cool
1:11 PM ME:
it had some clothes in it..
and i was upset..
he told me, just think like u donated it to some needy ppl
it will reach some needy ppl anyway..
he speaks less in terms of phylosophy..
but he makes lots of sense, in just few words..
sometimes i feel ashmaed of having such a narrow mind..
1:13 PM TECH ARCH
oh
yeah, may be you should feel good for losing your bag
but, feeling bad does not help either
but, all we are, are a mixed bag of feelings
1:14 PM ME:
ha ha.. yes..
im little low in emotions..
1:14 PM TECH ARCH
why do you say that
1:14 PM ME:
i dont have much feeling as such..
1:15 PM TECH ARCH
interesting
1:15 PM ME:
i dont know, im like that..
once i read a book on emotions
1:15 PM TECH ARCH
every one have strong feelings on some situations
not every one feels the same way
like i dont cry watching sad movies
does not mean i am not emotional
1:16 PM ME:
me too... not much..
1:16 PM TECH ARCH
esp, with nostalgic situations, people close to you etc, you are bound to get emotional
1:16 PM ME:
yes yes, but i dont admit it..
1:16 PM TECH ARCH
its ok
but, admit it to atleast a small set of people
dont have to admit to everyone
1:17 PM ME:
ok, i will tell u about the book..
1:17 PM TECH ARCH
that is why you have friends
sure,
1:17 PM ME:
its called roller coster of emotions..
1:17 PM TECH ARCH
which book is it
1:17 PM ME:
it explains biologically why each feeling exists
1:18 PM TECH ARCH
cool
why does it exist
1:18 PM ME:
like happyness, sadness, jelousy, etc
there were 9 emotions... explained in details
1:19 PM TECH ARCH
ok
1:19 PM ME:
they did lot of experements. and the results were shared in that book..
like happiness...
1:19 PM TECH ARCH
ok
what is the crux of this book
1:19 PM ME:
when u r happy u smile..
at the same time, when u smile.. u will feel happy
1:20 PM TECH ARCH
apparently all this is driven by harmones and driven by a biological need to survive and reproduce
1:20 PM ME:
its vis a versa
excatly..
1:20 PM TECH ARCH
i knew, everything eventually gets tied back to this
it is trivializing but with good sense
1:21 PM ME:
interesting was disgust feeling..
it is there so that we can avoid poisonous food from eating..
1:22 PM TECH ARCH
wow
you know so much, it is sometimes astonishing
1:22 PM ME:
i used to read some wierd books..
gives me a nice point of view on ordinary things
1:23 PM TECH ARCH
makes sense
1:23 PM ME:
like once i said, freakonomics..
u said u watched the movie of it..
1:24 PM TECH ARCH
i saw the move, yes
it was interesting
some of the points they mentioned was very true also
i must read this book on emotions though
1:25 PM ME:
nice..
u can download from torrent i guess.
1:25 PM TECH ARCH
coz, i also sometimes feel, i have low emotions, may be this will help me understand wht it is
1:25 PM ME:
http://books.google.co.in/books?id=fTio56YfIkUC&dq=roller+coaster+of+emotions&hl=en&sa=X&ei=G4qGT8ODK4zjrAeCqsWtBg&ved=0CDYQ6AEwAA
1:25 PM TECH ARCH
sure
did you buy the book
1:26 PM ME:
ha ha.. welcome to my boat..
i did, but i think ilost it.. didnt see it from a long time..
must have lend it to someone..
1:26 PM TECH ARCH
ok
what did you learn from it
do you think you have become too rational to be emotional
like sheldon cooper from big bang theory
1:27 PM ME:
i learnt that,its ok not to be emotional in this age..
as most of the things are not valid for a human..
1:28 PM TECH ARCH
ok
what are not valid for a human
1:28 PM ME:
im not able to recollect stuff from the book..
like disgust is not valid now
1:29 PM TECH ARCH
ok
1:29 PM ME:
we wont eat any insect anyway..
we know which is food and which is not..
on the similar line.. there is concept called engrams
1:30 PM TECH ARCH
oh
1:30 PM ME:
which helps keep animals from danger..
1:30 PM TECH ARCH
bad smelly thing right
1:30 PM ME:
and it is a big set back for human from success..
1:31 PM TECH ARCH
oh
1:31 PM ME:
no it some mental .... picture..
1:31 PM TECH ARCH
ok
1:31 PM ME:
in our subconsiousness.
i read it one of the 'how to be success ful book'
1:31 PM TECH ARCH
cool
how did you get so much interest in reading
1:32 PM ME:
may be from my father... but u shouldnt be impressed by this.,,
i should be learning from u..
1:33 PM TECH ARCH
what am i doing except work
i wish i could be like you
always happy
1:33 PM ME:
no no u memorized the whole wikipedia..
1:33 PM TECH ARCH
not really
1:33 PM ME:
u r too good in history n stuff..
1:34 PM TECH ARCH
it is a life time of interest gathered over a period of time
1:34 PM ME:
remember u once spoke about quaker oats
1:34 PM TECH ARCH
i have general interest in history
what did i speak
1:35 PM ME:
ha ha, reverse KT?
that day i got my new voice recorder..
1:35 PM TECH ARCH
its ok, i actually forgot
1:35 PM ME:
and it was recorded in it..
1:35 PM TECH ARCH
cool
was that not about spices or something
1:35 PM ME:
that it was from a group of ppl - from germany i guess..
they wear tall hats..
1:36 PM TECH ARCH
yes correct
that was about corn flakes not oats
1:36 PM ME:
topic started on honey bunch
1:36 PM TECH ARCH
quakers were a minority religious group that came up with corn flakes
correct
exactly
now, i remember
1:37 PM ME:
:)
1:37 PM TECH ARCH
too much, how did you even remember
1:37 PM ME:
i heard it recently when i was getting board..
1:37 PM TECH ARCH
and you know what, i talk such things only with very few people and one of them is you
1:38 PM ME:
that talk was interesting..
1:38 PM TECH ARCH
:)
1:38 PM ME:
wish u had talk something techincal also, i would have learnt something
1:38 PM TECH ARCH
ennamo ponga
may be sometime
1:39 PM ME:
it must be getting very late for u..
its 1.39 here
whats time there?
1:39 PM TECH ARCH
yeah, need to crash
1 09
pacific time zone
1:40 PM ME:
cool...
not much... than i expected..
ok... bye bye..
1:40 PM TECH ARCH
anyway, catch you later
1:40 PM ME:
very nice talking to u..
1:40 PM TECH ARCH
thanks for the chat
bye
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